Be Polite, Save the World.
Has anyone else noticed that it is becoming more acceptable to be rude to others than to be polite? Everywhere you go people are surly and bad mannered. Service people are snappy and standoffish. Drivers are selfish and angry. Its commonplace to see people flip each other off for daring to pass or pull ahead in traffic. If you have ever attempted to change lanes in bumper to bumper traffic you know what I am talking about. If people were simply kinder, traffic would not be so stressful. You would turn on your signal and the person behind you would give you room without fist waving and yelling.
When did it become so acceptable to be rude? When did we stop expecting common human kindness and start accepting bad manners? We need to take some action to show we don’t appreciate being treated with anger. Don’t you remember your mom and grandma drilling good manners into you? Or even your teachers drilling the golden rule “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Is it really so hard to smile and be polite?
I realized the other day when someone was polite enough to let me turn in a traffic jam after waiting several moments for a opening that we can really only control the way we act. If each of us makes an effort to be more polite in our day to day life maybe it will rub off on others. At the very least we may be happier knowing that we are not causing more anger. Being polite and treating each other as humans should be the easiest thing you can do. It costs us nothing and gains us much peace.
When did it become so acceptable to be rude? When did we stop expecting common human kindness and start accepting bad manners? We need to take some action to show we don’t appreciate being treated with anger. Don’t you remember your mom and grandma drilling good manners into you? Or even your teachers drilling the golden rule “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Is it really so hard to smile and be polite?
I realized the other day when someone was polite enough to let me turn in a traffic jam after waiting several moments for a opening that we can really only control the way we act. If each of us makes an effort to be more polite in our day to day life maybe it will rub off on others. At the very least we may be happier knowing that we are not causing more anger. Being polite and treating each other as humans should be the easiest thing you can do. It costs us nothing and gains us much peace.


7 Comments:
At 11:29 AM,
Psycho said…
Does this mean you want me to stop flipping people off when I drive?
At 12:07 PM,
Baron Samedi said…
I completely agree. I was just discussing this very thing with my secretary the other day. I find myself chasing people down on the roads as of late only to find their false sense of security drop like underwear in a prison shower when they see a 6’2” cracker heading for them with his fists balled and a big vein popping out of his head. Oh yeah, then you get “I am sorry sir” or “I didn’t realize”. You didn’t realize your were flipping me off, you didn’t realize you were screwing my poor truck in the tail pipe?!?!?! That’s okay little buddy….Oh, I didn’t realize I was shoving my keys into your orbital sockets!! DIE PIG, DIE!!!!!!
I try to be nice but when a normally 15 minute commute takes an hour and a half in rush our I cant help but wonder who I can kill so I can get to my shitty job that much faster. I don’t see this problem going away anytime soon. Yeah, I let people get in front of me all the time in traffic. When I see a hot chick trying to get over I let her in immediately, perhaps it the sexual evocation of that hottie being in front of my massive purple… truck! WOO HOO……..On the other hand I also tend to let old people over……..Um, Moving on then.
People are impatient dicks, I know I am. I want my cookie and unless you got something for me then move your ass! SUNDAY DRIVERS AND IDOL HUMAN CATTLE BEWARE!! I AM DYING AND EVERY MOMENT YOU WAIST OF MY LIFE WHILE YOU GO HOHUMMING THROUGH YOUR IS STEALING PRESIOUS SECONDS FROM ME! YOU ARE KILLING ME!!! KILLING ME!!!
And I just can’t get behind THAT!
Shit..You see I try to be nice and look what happens. THAT PISSES ME OFF!!
At 9:40 PM,
Sign Foo said…
Its not that I don't understand how fustrating bad drivers can be. I totally have had moments where i want to kill the other driver too. Yet I relise that if I let myself lose control and flip others off and scream blooky murder that makes me no better than them.
Getting angry at them takes our attention away from the road and we become just like them.
And Beau. when you get pissed you drive like a madman. Not fun for the passanger. (me)
At 10:53 PM,
Neal B said…
Wait, did Baron say that he had a secretary? That sounds like he might actually have a respectible job.
I was thinking about this the other day, though. I got really great customer service at lunch when I said thank you and please. The table next to us didn't get the same service from the same waiter, and they were snotty. I think my manners really made a difference. So, while I hope people start to be nicer, I like that I have my own secret method of getting above and beyond service.
At 2:33 PM,
Baron Samedi said…
Yes, contrary to popular belief I have a real job. I HAVE PEOPLE SKILLS DAMN IT!!!
At 4:14 PM,
Psycho said…
I'm not sure the ability to scare normal people when in puplic is thought of as "people skills"
At 8:43 PM,
Baron Samedi said…
This is true, but don't all the girls want to hump the scary guy?
I met this girl the other night that would agree wiht me on this one.:-)
Good thing I don't kiss and tell...on blogs.
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